Q. when you are turning at the end of the first row, and after you skip 3 holes to turn, after that how many holes do you skip? and do you follow this same routine for the 3rd row?
A. I assume you are talking about the original "chain" row. Yes, after you skip the 3 holes that are close to the crochet hook, go ahead and start your stitches right there. Crochet all the way across. At the end of THIS row, either:
1. chain 2 - if the next row is to be a single-crochet row, or
2. chain 3 - if the next row is to be a double-crochet row